You are responsible for what you are !!

Hope most of u all has read my blog on "Winner Of Hearts"
I continue it here about Winning.
But its not about winning the hearts of people around u.
Its all about "WINNING YOURSELF"

You are responsible for what you are??!!
Even if you are in the best or worst scenario.
May be its quite easy for the people to point out someone
for what they are, when it comes the latter scenario.
But hard enough to admit themselves.

When u think of ourselves, we may regret something for doing it
or for not doing it.
Or We may feel right for doing it or for not doing it.
But the thing is which case is higher.
There is a dialogue in movie Fanaa

"To choose between right or wrong is simple, but what defines one's life is
the decision between the greater of two goods or the lesser of two evils"

Its true, because we should not regret later for what we did.

Everyone will say "what the people will think if i do this ?"
Listen to what ur heart says.
Do what u  really want to pursue.
Because its only you who gonna cherish happiness or suffer for what u did.
Its not the people.

Whatever you are, there are people who will always be there to criticize you.
Even if you do good they will criticize " It could have been done in a better way"
If it is a worst case, they literally play with their words.
But only when they stand in your shoes, they can able to understand what you are.
In today's world its getting harder for people to stand in their own shoes.
Then how come they will try to understand you.
They dont have time to think on you.

People just let their words in their journey and pass away.
Its upto whether you should take up their words or not.

If you feel it right, think and work on it.
Else just drop it out from your mind and go ahead.

But there are also some people who just never care about others and
let the journey on their own way thinking it right.
It should also not be the scenario.
One who is good enough in admitting their mistakes are also good enough in taking right decisions.

Am i confusing ??
Yeah. One who are capable of choosing between right and wrong
also capable of managing people.
But how one can win ourself.?
Only when u can get a satisfaction on what you are doing, u can acheive it.
Before getting satisfaction on what u doing you should be confident on what you doing.
For being confident on what you doing, you should not be afraid on what you doing.
But getting a satisfaction on what you are doing or what you have done
is not so easy..
Because winning yourself is not so easy..!

When you are capable of taking the decision between the greater of two goods or the lesser of two evils with full confidence and complete satisfaction
you are obviously “WINNER OF YOUR HEART”

KUTTIES CHUTTINESS

 How many of u ppl longing to go back to ur childhood? Its almost yes, an instant answer from all.. because ,

“WOUNDED KNEES ARE ALWAYS BETTER THAN BLEEDING HEART”

Ofcourse, a well known line, familiar to all and knowing to be damn true..

How happy it will be , even the life too had a “reverse” button, to recherish our unforgettable moments and to regain our innocence..Being practically impossible, we can atleast think of it and relive those beautiful moments..Another way by spending time with kids, we can again relive  those moments..

Today’s kids are extremely smart and they do interesting things wat we did in our teenage. Exposure to them is more and they are able to see many things in young age… I do envy while seeing those cute kids, with a school uniform and a smile without any reason..

According to me , Innocence is a very cute thing that v can express to our loved ones.. A kid with that innocence , can easily carry away the hearts of ppl..Just wanna share few moments which carried me away..

$ A second std gal, ofcourse my cousin sister presented me a gift on diwali. Its not something big and costly, but a special thing for me..She came to me and asked to spell my name. I told her..Again she asked to spell ‘Happy Deepavali’ correctly..I told her and I dint ask for wat she is asking me.. I just took in a simple way..

After sometime she came to me and gave me just like gift box.. it was not wrapped and all.. I asked her wat is this, she told to open the box..Inside it was many small pieces of paper and in every piece it was written “Baveethra.T,K Happy Deepavali” in childish , cursive handwriting..Even on the top of the box she has written that..I was shocked and dono wat to say. Felt so so happy.. How come a 6yr old gal can able to present a gift in her own way??

$ Another UKG boy, brother of the Small gal and my cousin brother too, asked me for a cool drinks. I bought but as it was very sunny, chillness was reduced. I told to have in refrigerator and can drink later.. He asked me ,’ Y cant we have it in an ac room, so that it will regain the chillness?’ .. I was unanswerable at tat second..See , how smartly they are thinking..

          Like the same, u too would have experienced many questions from relative’s children and neighbors.. Those questions, can make us smile when we are alone..Here again few more moments which I had experienced..

          $ While in hostel , there was a 3 yr old boy staying with his mom. He asked me for phone.. I told him there was no charge on it and will give later.. He suddenly said,” oh.. no current on that ah..? ok ok.. give me after current comes on it..”I was admired by his question. How come a child can able to think that v haven’t thought…

        $When I was in home, 6^th std boy , neighbor , came to home.. I was talking to him..He asked me , why am staying in home?.. I said am in leave..He then asked ,” Is it a Quarterly exam holidays for u?”..For a second , I went back to days where we prepared for only Quarterly , half-early and annual exams  and not for semesters and waiting for leave..He asked me the question bcoz , he was writing his quarterly exams and holidays gonna come in a week..

The  moments just keep on adding while v spend the time with kids..their smile can take away all hard things..When u are sick , its not only medicines which helps u to bounce back to normal .Spending time with kids will do that, than a medicine does..

“A CHILD CAN ABLE TO TAKE YOUR WORLD AWAY AND HELP YOU TO JOURNEY THE SMILE “

Go back to the moments while,

è The fights are just for chocolates;

è Tears are just for cartoons;

è Smiles are just for nothing;

è Life is just for enjoyment.

“WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELTLY LOST ON CHILD’S INNOCENCE, YOU ARE COMPLETELY THE LOSER OF SADNESS”

Ready to get destroyed in “ KUTTIES CHUTTINESS”, you will be the happiest person forever..

WINNER OF HEARTS

         

Whenever v speak to someone just think for a second ,” how will u react or feel if they speak the same to u” and then process your words , half the solution for the problem are just done..

 “WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO READ THE MINDS OF PEOPLE AND THEN PROCESS, YOU ARE DEFINITELY CAPABLE OF WINNING THEIR HEARTS TOO”

Does anyone agree with this?? But I feel its damn true…

Many says it may be true, but reading the minds is not quite easy!

OFCOURSE  ITS TRUE !! HOW COME U CAN ABLE TO BE “THE WINNER OF HEARTS” SO EASILY??

Words are more powerful than wounds.. Every one knows..Sometimes it kills more than an enemy does..Origin of the words may be in tongue.. But its destination is to reach one’s mind or heart, but a travel in better way..

Its not quite easy to process the words and let it out..Sometimes while we process, the moment may be gone.Taking into account of both time and people, and expressing the words is an important job..Because the persistance of the words may be short.. but its presence in one’s mind or heart is very long..

Everyone is selfish on themselves.. I admit myself here..When I’m hurt, I think others are wrong , eventhough they are right..But the same when I hurt others, I will always prove am right, eventhough I may be wrong..later I may realize , but doesn’t admit the fault so easily..Does anyone agree the same on u ??

Its also so important to think and to hold that pain, while we are being hurt.When u gonna hurt others, may be not intentionally, hold the same pain again and think , this is how they too will feel for what u speak to them..

This is what u may not b needed.. because after all we are selfish people..

WE CAN OWN OUR SELFISHNESS TO ANY EXTENT, UNLESS IT DOESN’T HURT OTHERS..

 When the words are expressed in right way, obviously it’s the intimacy that gets greater between the people…Understanding the people is different from feeling for them..Its better to feel for them than to understand them..Its the same you also wanted..

U ALWAYS PREFER TO BE FELT THAN TO BE UNDERSTOOD.. ISN’T IT??

U can able to read the minds of people , only when u can able to stand on their shoes at that instant and then process..

TO STAND ON OTHER SHOES IS NOT TO OWN YOUR SELFISHNESS!!

When someone feels comfortable, on expressing their issues to u , you are “The Winner Of Hearts”, because you are now, the reader of their minds.. This comes done, only when you seems to be a good listener to them..

When the words are light, actually u are impressable and quite probably you are “The Winner Of Hearts” too..

This is what I learnt from “The Winner Of Hearts” to be “The Winner Of Hearts”…

Now how many agree with this??

 “WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO READ THE MINDS OF PEOPLE AND THEN PROCESS, YOU ARE DEFINITELY CAPABLE OF WINNING THEIR HEARTS TOO”..